I’m going to give it to you in a nutshell, the way I wish someone had given it to me years ago.
The more loving you are, the more ease and grace you’ll experience.
It took me so long to get this. Let me unpack why it’s true.
The more loving we are, the more we’re being our true Self. The more loving we are, the more we’re placing our trust and our faith in Love itself, in the Holy Spirit.
The ego thought system will sometimes choose to be loving too, but only as a way to get something. That’s the whole difference between the special relationship and the holy relationship. One loves to get. The other simply loves.
Here’s the deeper truth underneath all of it.
Nearly every great spiritual teaching points to the same thing: all is one. We’re united. We’re not separate.
The only real problem we think we have is that we believed in separation, and so we experienced separation. And when we believe in separation, we’re going to suffer.
So what heals it?
Love heals it. Love unites us.
A Course in Miracles says it perfectly:
“Teach only love, for that is what you are.”
When we practice being Love, we remember our true identity. We’ve had that ability the whole time. We simply chose, again and again, to value thoughts of separation instead.
We can choose differently now.
This is wonderfully practical. Each morning, before we even get out of bed, we can set one simple intention: to be a little more loving today than we were yesterday.
Just one more loving choice than yesterday.
Make that choice daily, and by the end of a year, our life will be transformed. Not because we forced anything, but because love kept gently uniting what the ego kept trying to divide.
Love makes everything go easier. It always has.
We don’t have to earn our way home. We just have to choose love, one moment at a time in order to be a vibrational match for it.
