Our personalities are interesting and challenging.  Sometimes they’re even delightful.  

Many times I am doing my best to be delicate, to not be too pushy or strong and it comes out as though I’m being deliberately obtuse.  I’m often too subtle, thinking that people can fill in all the missing parts and feel what I really mean, but they don’t and they can’t and it gets me into trouble again and again.

For a long time now, I’ve beenlearning to speak plainly.  Sometimes I feel my nature is to be too direct and that it comes out as something sharp and intense, even confrontational.  I’m learning about balance.

We can be super successful at communicating if we can share how we feel without complaining and without attacking, without judging.  It takes a great willingness to have a healing rather than to just blame.

As Thich That Hath says, “blaming never helps.”  

We blame when we’d like people to feel guilty.

What we’re really doing is taking our own self-blame and guilt and projecting it out onto others.  It creates more drama and trauma which is actually for the purpose of bringing our attention to it.

I used to perpetuate a lot of drama.

I realized that I did that because I felt so helpless.

I’m not helpless anymore, so I don’t need to be silent and I don’t need to make a lot of drama.

I can be clear and speak plainly without judgment and help bring things to the Light of Love for healing.

It does take willingness.

I have that willingness now.

I am interested in being a drama-free zone.

I encourage you to make a commitment to speak plainly, without judgment or blame and with a strong  intention to bring things to the light of Love for healing.  

In this way, we can let the past go and experience a great healing.  It’s beautiful.  Let us be grateful!

SATURDAY:  Free Forgiveness workshop – all you have to do is register to attend this free workshop on forgiveness.  Let’s do the inner work together and transform the painful past into a rocket launch into our life of LOVE! Click here now to register for the free Forgiveness Workshop this Saturday, October 28.

I’ve got several things coming up you may find fun and helpful:

• Grieving Through the Holidays – I did this class for the first time last year – and it was so healing.  I’m offering it again starting on Thursday.  If you’re already feeling the intensity of the holidays heading our way and the grief that can come up at this time, this may be helpful to you.
• Forgiveness Retreat in the NY Catskills November 9 to 12 – this is an absolute BARGAIN – only 497. Plus a great rate on lodging and meals! CHECK IT OUT! Plus a great rate on lodging and meals! CHECK IT OUT!
• Spiritual Counseling Training Intensive in the NY Catskills November 13 to 19.
  If you’re interested in the training, consider coming to the Forgiveness Retreat too and have a MAJOR shift and a big discount!

If you feel you’ve been holding yourself back and letting fear decide, these events might be your answered prayer! If it’s right for you, you’ll know. Trust your intuition!

Not sure if one of my programs is right for you? You’re invited to schedule a free Exploratory Call with one of our certified spiritual counselors to get your questions answered and see if this program can bring you the results YOU would like!

LATEST PODCAST EPISODE! The most recent episode of my podcast’s topic is Jesus, Christ and The Holy Spirit. It helps to have a clear understanding of what the Christ is, and the function of both Jesus and the Holy Spirit in our lives. These are described in the Clarification of Terms section of ACIM In this episode, Jennifer helps us to have more clarity about how to hold Jesus, the Holy Spirit and the Christ in our awareness so that we can amplify and accelerate our healing.