Challenging relationships have been the best tool to help me heal my mind of the things that disturb my peace.  Who’d’ve thunk it could possibly be true?  Certainly not me.  There was a time when I thought relationship challenges could make me give up on life.

I’ve experienced some extraordinary relationship healing in my life and I’m so very grateful.  For me, there’s been nothing more upsetting to me than the difficulties in my relationships.  They have challenged me to the core of my being.  I’m so glad I learned that this is precisely what relationships are for.  

I’ve learned not to walk away from a difficult relationship.

I’ve learned to never give up on myself or anyone else.

Instead, I’ve come to absolutely know that the thing to do is to give it UP to the Higher Holy Spirit Self for miraculous healing.  This method works, but that doesn’t make it easy.  

Don’t give up before the miracle.

Give it UP to the Higher Holy Spirit Self and expect a miracle!

Relationship attachments can be like an alien parasite.  It makes me think of the terrifying movie, Aliens with Sigourney Weaver (LOVE her!).  Remember when the member of the crew was on the operating table and the alien exploded out of his belly?  I went through a period where I was undoing the ego at such a rapid rate that I felt that I was pregnant with an alien baby terrorist that was trying to eat me alive from the inside.  

It’s that feeling when the third chakra is going through such an intense cleansing.  The third chakra, at the solar plexis, is all about our self-perception.  When we’re perceiving ourselves as the ego, the small, selfish self, then it’s a constant battle with an inner terrorist.  We’ll project it outward into ALL of our relationships and never feel self.

When we’re willing to shift identification to the Higher Holy Spirit Self, then we can begin to see clearly what every relationship is for.  Then, we can have holy relationships.  It’s intensely challenging, but THANK GOD we don’t have to figure out HOW to make it all happen.  We only have to allow.  

This is the time where we’re all learning about Self-Love – Self with a capital S.  This is the curriculum, and we can delay, we can avoid, but we’ll still have to do the curriculum eventually.  Let’s get to it!  Heaven is at hand!

The best way to get to the healing we desire in our relationships is really focus on loving yourself IN all of your relationships.  Let’s do it!  

This is why I’m offering free Forgiveness Workshops online right now so we can do this work together.

TODAY SATURDAY: Free Forgiveness workshop – all you have to do is register to attend this free workshop on forgiveness.  Let’s do the inner work together and transform the painful past into a rocket launch into our life of LOVE! Click here now to register for the free Forgiveness Workshop this Saturday, October 28.

I’ve got several things coming up you may find fun and helpful:

• Grieving Through the Holidays – I did this class for the first time last year – and it was so healing.  I’m offering it again starting on Thursday.  If you’re already feeling the intensity of the holidays heading our way and the grief that can come up at this time, this may be helpful to you.
• Forgiveness Retreat in the NY Catskills November 9 to 12 – this is an absolute BARGAIN – only 497. Plus a great rate on lodging and meals! CHECK IT OUT! Plus a great rate on lodging and meals! CHECK IT OUT!
• Spiritual Counseling Training Intensive in the NY Catskills November 13 to 19.
  If you’re interested in the training, consider coming to the Forgiveness Retreat too and have a MAJOR shift and a big discount!

If you feel you’ve been holding yourself back and letting fear decide, these events might be your answered prayer! If it’s right for you, you’ll know. Trust your intuition!

Not sure if one of my programs is right for you? You’re invited to schedule a free Exploratory Call with one of our certified spiritual counselors to get your questions answered and see if this program can bring you the results YOU would like!

LATEST PODCAST EPISODE! The most recent episode of my podcast’s topic is When Wisdom Arrives, Rosalyn Rourke. It helps to have a clear understanding of what the Christ is, and the function of both Jesus and the Holy Spirit in our lives. These are described in the Clarification of Terms section of ACIM In this episode, Jennifer helps us to have more clarity about how to hold Jesus, the Holy Spirit and the Christ in our awareness so that we can amplify and accelerate our healing.