One of the best lessons we have in our lifetime is realizing that people stop doing the things that bother us as soon as we’re willing to stop feeling like a victim.
In order stop feeling like a victim we must be willing to stop picturing ourselves as a victim, and to stop blaming others for how we feel.
To me, one of the fundamental ways I played small in my life was the constant imagining myself as someone else’s victim. I didn’t realize what I was doing. For me, it was all about blaming life, people, situations and stuff being the cause of my upset.
It was all projection.
And, because it was all projection, and it was all made up imaginings, I had to keep re-picturing myself as the victim of the world. I did it over and over again.
And then I’d defend myself in my imaginings – reinforcing my belief in my victimhood. I was actually arguing for seeing myself as small and weak. What a strange thing to do. And yet, so many of us are in that repetitive cycle.
It really does take willingness to break the addiction to seeing ourselves as a victim.
It’s so worth it. I really did feel like I had an addiction to seeing myself as a victim. It was one of the primary ways that I was playing small and living in lack and limitation.
When we’re repeatedly imagining ourselves as a victim, it’s happening again and again. It becomes our vibration. And like attracts like. So, we continue to attract more of the same – but we don’t have to.
This can heal so fast if we’re willing AND if we put Spirit in charge!
My Stop Playing Small online retreat starts Friday, September 8th. If you’d like to have a whole lot of healing and transformation in a short period of time, please come join me.
AND my Finding Freedom From Fear Spiritual Bootcamp with ACIM Principles is on a SUPER DUPER EARLY BIRD SPECIAL and if you combine it with Stop Playing Small you’ll get an EVEN BIGGER SAVINGS. Doing these two back to back is life-changing for most people who’ve done it.
If you feel you’ve been holding yourself back and letting fear decide, this might be your answered prayer!
Click here now to learn more about the online retreat and you can still make this your breakthrough year.
Not sure if this is right for you right now? There’s still time! You’re invited to schedule a free Exploratory Call with one of our certified spiritual counselors to get your questions answered and see if this retreat can bring you the results YOU would like!
If this is right for you right now, Spirit will give you the nudge. Trust your intuition!
LATEST PODCAST EPISODE! The most recent episode of my podcast’s topic is about how Coping With Anger. When we’re managing and coping with anger then it means we’re not believing we can have a healing – but we can! In this episode I share about a path to healing that anger and moving out of just coping.
SATURDAY: FREE Forgiveness Workshop Saturday, August 26th! All are welcome – please share with friends and loved ones!
