Have you ever argued to prove that you’re right about something? Of course you have.
Have you ever argued so intensely to prove you’re right about something that you damaged the relationship of the person you were arguing with?
Many of us have.
Some people do it consistently.
I used to be one of those people.
I’ve come to realize that people who are that committed to arguing about how right they are, to the point of being unloving, are deeply insecure. In their perspective, they can’t afford to lose an argument. It will crush them because they already feel so unlovable.
That’s what I finally figured out about my own thinking.
If we already feel unlovable, it doesn’t matter if we alienate more people and leave them thinking you’re intolerable and unlovable – we know they’ll get there eventually and find us lacking. Better to know sooner than later. Right?
What would help is if we could realize, right from the beginning of our lives, is that most people feel unworthy of Love. It’s not unique to us.
Folks believe that they have to work and argue and labor for everything, and so they do. If we knew that we all started from that same place, and if we could agree to help everyone believe in themselves, and love themselves we’d be learning that too and then everyone would get healed pretty quickly.
In fact, we can start doing that right now.
It would help us remember that we truly are the Light of the world.
Even if we don’t believe we are, we are.
Instead a lot of us pretend we’re okay when we’re not and struggle to get through with our game face on.
A Course in Miracles teaches us that we need DO nothing. Ask and it is given because it’s already been given to us.
The kingdom is pre-installed.
We’re pre-approved.
When we seek the kingdom, which is within, then all the healing we desire is added unto us.
When we seek the kingdom, or kingdom substitutes, out in the world, then all the healing we desire is hidden from us and unattainable.
What I’ve come to see is that there’s a clear path to healing, to awakening, which is the same as healing, for all of us. We all have a clear path and our willingness to get out of the way and depend upon the Higher Holy Spirit Self, then we can have speed healing.
The clear path is one of non-judgment, taking responsibility, extending love and compassion even to those we don’t like, and, of course, forgiveness. Oh, and lots of practice.
When we get on the speed healing path it’s easier because it’s more fun and the company is good. ACIM offers that path to us. And it’s so much easier when we go together. Whether we go it alone or later, let’s go NOW.
I love doing this work together, not just because it’s way easier, but because it’s way more fun. If you think you might be deceiving yourself, or managing and coping with fear and feeling unlovable, you might like my Finding Freedom From Fear, spiritual bootcamp class with ACIM principles.
For many people who take my program, it’s a game-changer. They don’t look back and life just keeps improving. The mind clears. Love prevails in their life and they find the Freedom they’ve been looking for.
If this is right for you right now, you’ll know it.
Freedom IS our natural state. We don’t have to work to earn it. Instead, we have to be willing, only willing to let go of the blocks to Love. And that’s something we can do together.
If you feel you’ve been holding yourself back and letting fear decide, this might be your answered prayer!
Trust your intuition! If you’ve been thinking about doing my Finding Freedom From Fear Bootcamp for a while, but just haven’t been ready, consider booking an exploratory call with one of the spiritual counselors. They can answer all your questions and you’ll know what’s best for you. Book an exploratory call today!
My Finding Freedom From Fear spiritual bootcamp isn’t for everyone – it’s for those who are willing to dive in and live the Love. Click here now to learn more.
We begin Monday, October 16! This is going to be SO good because I am ON FIRE this fall!
Let’s have REAL and lasting transformation this year with a spiritual practice that brings benefit and healing for all. Now is the time for us to dive deep and eliminate the patterns of fear in our life. I thank you for being on the journey with me.
