One of the greatest gifts I’ve received from A Course in Miracles is the potent understanding that I truly do not know what anything is for—and that’s actually a good thing.

For decades, I labeled things “good” or “bad,” “right” or “wrong.” I was swimming in opinions, projections, and assumptions. It was exhausting, and it blocked the very Love I was longing for.

But here’s the truth: when we judge, we suffer. Every single time.

ACIM tells us plainly in the Manual for Teachers: not only should we not judge—we cannot. Judgment requires knowing all the effects of every action in all directions of time and space. Who among us has that kind of omniscience? Not me. And that’s where our humility sets us free.

I’ve come to realize that my need to label things is really the ego trying to control and categorize what it doesn’t understand. But Love doesn’t need labels. Love simply is.

When I gave up the burden of trying to judge, a whole new world opened up.

I became more present. I became more peaceful. And I could laugh in moments that used to bring me to tears.

Just recently, my cat, Sattva, brought a live mouse into the house—while I was teaching Masterful Living on Zoom! Instead of freaking out, I handled it with grace.  It was a little exciting for sure, but I maintained neutrality.  It was neither good nor bad.

And you know what? That small moment of Peace revealed the power of this practice.

Judgment is heavy. Love is light. Lay down the burden today.

Let the Holy Spirit do the judging and let yourself be free.

Remember: “Where now he laughs, he used to come to weep.” That’s the shift. That’s the healing. That’s the miracle.

And I’m so grateful to walk this path with you.

Did you miss it?  If you missed the Week 1 Session on Sunday, you can still join us and watch the instant replay of my End My Self-Sabotage Challenge

Why wait any longer to be happy, spiritually successful, and living an inspired life? I can’t think of any good reason. Can you?

If you’re willing to dive deeper into ending self-sabotage patterns that keep you stuck:

In this program, you’ll discover what thousands have experienced:  we can get to the root cause of self-sabotage and eliminate that – and then our behavior and choices change.  It’s so much easier!!

We’re doing it together, because community heals what isolation cannot.

And this is the best deal I have for you all year.  It’s a crazy low price and we even have payment plans.

What do you have to lose except the patterns of pain that cost you time, energy, and peace? 

NEW ACIM PODCAST EPISODE: my topic is Good VS Bad: How Do You Know Which Is Which?. In this episode, I unpack how “good” and “bad” are illusions maintained by judgment—something A Course in Miraclestells us we are incapable of making because we cannot see through all directions of time and space. I share personal stories, insights from the Manual for Teachers, and practical wisdom for living more peacefully by surrendering the ego’s constant labeling and instead choosing neutrality, trust, and humility. When we stop judging, we stop suffering—and we open ourselves to healing, joy, and true spiritual freedom.