Have you ever complained that people just didn’t get you?
Did you ever feel like folks were taking advantage of you?
Have you ever felt that you weren’t appreciated?
I certainly have felt all those things and I always used to blame it on “those people” and think that the issue was they weren’t good people.
I’ve come to see that I’m in the minority. Most people would have the same experiences as me and they’d think “I must not be worth it.”
I’m finally clear that I believed I wasn’t worth it – BUT – that thought SO COMPLETELY terrified me, I had to repress it, and project that fear out onto the “others” and declare that THEY were the ones who weren’t worth it.
Either way – it’s all about self-worth.
Also, whether I think that THEY aren’t worth my love and care – or I believe I’m the one who’s not worth caring for – it’s the same, because we’re one.
For a minute, I had to wonder, “how could I have missed this for sooooooo long?”
Well, I didn’t want to see what I didn’t want to know about. I was “satisfied” to blame others and keep looking for the problem outside myself – because I didn’t want to look within.
Looking within felt like opening Pandora’s box.
When I did start to look within it was nightmarish.
I had so much self-judgment that I was completely disoriented for quite awhile.
I discovered a deep-seated self-hatred.
And ultimately I realized that it was all a house of cards made out of lies and self-deceit.
My willingness brought me profound healing – and that’s why it’s so important for me to share.
I never, EVER imagined it was possible for me to get out from under the weight of my self-judgment, but I have.
And I’m ever so grateful.
In a sense, unworthiness makes the world go around, in the same way that a hamster goes around on a wheel. Spinning and toiling, and going nowhere while exhausting herself.
We use up all our energy trying to GET something to change in our lives so that we can feel worthy, when the only real way to make that shift is to eliminate the blocks inside our hearts to our worthiness.
When any one of us eliminates the blocks to Love we all have more love in our lives.
It seems hard to imagine, but we can really live in Peace no matter what the world has to offer us. When we feel unworthy of Love, then we’re going to interpret our experiences as proof that we’re not good enough. So, that’s why the only way to get out of this unworthiness hole is to shift our minds.
I’m amazed at how much we can change our life and our experience. It’s the grace of God that no matter how low we’ve sunk we can still rise to greater and greater glory – it’s a divine impetus within us.
If you suspect that worthiness is your issue, then you might consider coming to my Worthiness Workshop on Saturday.
This workshop is for people who are interested in making a change. When you register, I’ll send you a link to download the worksheet that you’ll need to set aside some time to fill out and bring to the workshop to be able to get the benefits. Let’s do this healing together and not put it off any longer! Click here to learn more now.
ALSO TODAY: Sundays With Spirit – celebration of truth, in community. Please come join me for inspiration today – I’m speaking and we have great music too! Click here to register if you’re not already. It’s totally FREE.
NEW! Deep Dive Monthly Workshop Series! Clear the mental and emotional clutter that blocks the miracles. Each month I’m offering a new workshop topic. OCTOBER TOPIC is Worthiness. Have you been a spiritual student who reads a lot of books, listens to a lot of podcasts (including mine) and is taking in a lot of information, but not experiencing the results you’d like? Together we’ll do the work you’ve been resisting!
This month we’re working on undoing the unworthiness with my Worthiness Workshop! This coming Saturday, October 19th.
- Clear painful habits
- Dissolve false beliefs
- Remember to laugh
- With NO judgments!
If it feels right for you right now you’ll know, trust your intuition!
NEW ACIM PODCAST EPISODE: my topic is Finding Peace Peace is the way we walk in God. Peace is part of our inherent being, and there is a way to discover it where it’s been all along – in our mind. In this episode, Jennifer discusses her own experience of finding the Peace within her awareness and learning to value it above any story she made up in her life. Peace is ours when we’re willing!
Vote with your heart! If you’re a citizen of these great United States, I hope you’ll feel inspired to vote. If you’re not registered, you can easily register to vote online here: https://www.vote.org/register-to-vote/ Let your voice be heard because you’re here to represent God who sent you. One thing to know: Who you vote for is private, but whether you vote is public record – so if you don’t like getting phone calls, door knockers and such, once you vote they won’t be reaching out to you. If you’re someone who sends money to support your candidate, encouraging people to vote early will save time, energy and money candidates spend trying to reach them.




