I used to have a real problem with rejecting people.  I would sense some kind of criticism or rejection coming my way and I’d try to beat the person to the punch, so to speak.  I was playing an ego game of “I’ll reject you before you reject me.”

Like attracts like.  And nothing changes unless someone decides to do something differently.

I started to experience a lot of healing in my life when I made the decision toshift that pattern.  I decided to develop the patience to hold my tongue.  It was very important to me and I really made up my mind to do it.  

I put Spirit in charge of showing me all the opportunities to be patient and shift things.  What I discovered was that in the time of being patient I could hear my heart’s call to be loving and compassionate.  

I used to take offense SO easily.  It was a big challenge for me not to go off like a rocket at the slightest provocation.  I was deeply insecure, and that was the cause of my fear-based reactions, but I didn’t realize it.

I was SO defensive.  And that was exhausting.  Pretty quickly, it was obvious that it was just so much easier to live a life without rejecting others.  Other people’s rejections became a point of compassion rather than me taking it personally.

Taking time for the pause.  Being patient.  Giving myself a chance to just BE with what was occurring allowed me to remember that I was much more interested in being loving than being right.  

Now, I can feel that I was rejecting God’s Love.  

Now, I know that it is my calling to extend Love.  

All are called.  We can answer this call every time it appears.

I learned to be grateful for the times when i got triggered because it brought my awareness to an opportunity to extend Love and change my life, which I surely did.

It seems overwhelming, but it’s really about only a few things:

Decide what’s most important to you and commit to it to the best of your ability in the moment.

Ask Spirit for assistance and guidance.

Follow the guidance you get.

This is how we transform our lives from being a giant pain in the butt to being a healing presence!  It works!

If you’d like my help becoming receptive to God’s Love and moving out of the unconscious guilt and punishing yourself, blaming others, living like a victim or a martyr, feeling guilty and ashamed, please check out my Finding Freedom From Fear Spiritual Bootcamp class – it’s designed to be a rocket booster for your spiritual journey. Spiritual Liberation is what this program is for.

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YES, that’s right – Finding Freedom From Fear Spiritual Bootcamp is on a SUPER DUPER EARLY BIRD SPECIAL thru MONDAY, September 4th.

Get support to stop playing small and live your calling.  Deepen your spiritual practice and accelerate your awakening by eliminating the pain patterns.  It’s easier than you think!

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FRIDAY – My Stop Playing Small online retreat starts Friday, September 8th.  If you’d like to have a whole lot of healing and transformation in a SHORT period of time, please come join me. 

AND While my Finding Freedom From Fear Spiritual Bootcamp with ACIM Principles is on a SUPER DUPER EARLY BIRD SPECIAL, if you combine it with Stop Playing Small online retreat, you’ll get an EVEN BIGGER SAVINGS.  Doing these two back to back is life-changing for most people who’ve done it.

If you feel you’ve been holding yourself back and letting fear decide, this might be your answered prayer!

Click here now to learn more about the online retreat and you can still make this your breakthrough year.

Not sure if this is right for you right now? There’s still time! You’re invited to schedule a free Exploratory Call with one of our certified spiritual counselors to get your questions answered and see if this retreat can bring you the results YOU would like!

If this is right for you right now, Spirit will give you the nudge. Trust your intuition!

FREE Forgiveness Workshop Monday, September 4th! All are welcome – please share with friends and loved ones!