Have you ever noticed how we treat pain like it’s the boss of us? We rearrange our whole life around it, manage it, cope with it, and basically let it dictate our days.
But here’s what made a difference for me: discovering that “Pain is a wrong perspective.” (ACIM W-190)
For years, I believed pain was proof that something was deeply wrong with me. I felt as though I’d been branded with a branding iron – intense, searing, permanent. No way out.
I’d think, “They were delusional” about the people who hurt me, but really? I was the one living in delusion, believing pain was my reality.
Here’s what helped me see it correctly: Pain is up to me! I’m in charge of whether or not I experience pain.
It was hard to believe at first, but the great thing is – the truth sets us FREE!
When we’re experiencing ANY kind of pain – emotional, physical, mental – it’s because we’re mentally and emotionally attached to the wrong perspective, the wrong view. We’re seeing ourselves as separate from Love, separate from God, separate from good. That’s the painful perspective right there.
In my Masterful Living Program (which starts in January), we practice recognizing these wrong perspectives and choosing again. Because as A Course in Miracles tells us, “I must have decided wrongly, because I am not at peace.” (ACIM T-5.VII.6)
The safest place for me to reside is in my loving heart, wide open where anyone can see, having no shame. No more hiding. No more managing. No more letting pain be the boss.
Our willingness (even if it’s tiny) to see pain differently is all that’s required for the transformation. The more willing we are, the faster the healing occurs.
When we stop believing in the authority of pain, we start experiencing the authority of Love.
We can do this!
🔥 Ready to finally end those painful patterns for real this time? Join me for END THE PATTERN, BLESS THE LESSON: Bye Bye Baggage – A Deep Dive Workshop on December 13th! December 2025 isn’t just the end of the year—it’s the completion of a 9-year cosmic cycle, and this is our sacred opportunity to release the baggage, complete the karma, and step into 2026 clean and clear. In this powerful workshop, I’ll share the exact tools that end patterns at the root (so you’re not just managing them), plus the spiritual methods to extract the blessing so the lesson doesn’t have to keep showing up. We’re at a cosmic threshold, and together we can use this divine timing for liberation. If you’re done dragging the same old pain into every new beginning, join me Saturday, December 13th at 3pm Eastern. Let’s do this transformational work together and welcome a New Year that’s truly NEW. 💜 YES, I’M READY TO RELEASE AND RESET 💜
Masterful Living Program 2026 – Registration is open! This is my very best program. The sooner you register the more bonuses you get! Click here now to learn more. Masterful Living is where we’ll do the transformational work together. Shifting our consciousness and inviting miracles is the heart of what we practice in my Masterful Living Program (which starts January 3rd) together we give the heavy lifting to the Holy Spirit when we’re training our mind to be vigilant only for God.
LATEST ACIM PODCAST EPISODE: Why You Keep Repeating the Same Painful Patterns in this episode of A Course in Miracles: Living the Love, Walking the Talk, I reveal why you might be living in a spiritual Groundhog Day—repeating the same painful patterns I was trapped in for years. I’ll share the counterintuitive ACIM truth that freed me from my own “Twilight Zone” of recurring pain and the surprisingly simple practice that changed everything. You’ll discover your one real responsibility as a miracle worker and why your worst experiences contain hidden treasures you’re accidentally rejecting. Perfect timing as we complete this nine-year cycle and prepare for what’s next.
