Many, MANY times I’ve had counseling clients or folks in my classes tell me that someone in their life has really difficult energy to be around and it brings them down to be with them.  I used to feel the same way about some of the people in my life.

For the longest time, I was challenged by various people.  They would rub me the wrong way and harsh my buzz.  Some people irritated me so much!

What I’ve learned over the years is that it was never those people’s energy that was my challenge.

The real challenge was my thoughts about those people.  

I was never upset for the reason I thought.

It turns out that my judgments about the people were what brought my energy down.   Investing in negativity instead of Love – that’s what brought me down.

Now, while I do occasionally experience some people as challenging, or less enjoyable to be around – they don’t bring my energy down because I can hold them in the light no matter how they behave.

This is the gift of Peace that I’ve given myself and can share with others.

Consider someone that seems to bother you.

Now, consider this a challenge from me to you – next time you’re with them, be super mindful of holding them in the Light of Love rather than judging them and see if they still bring you down.

This is something that you can practice and rehearse.  In your mind’s eye, imagine being able to hold the peaceful mind no matter what.

Folks who seem to challenge us are actually helping us to be more loving.  Let’s take the challenge and hold it with ease and grace.

Let’s be peacekeepers, Light bringers and lovebugs!

Are you willing?

Let’s make a quantum leap together.  

If you’d like my help developing a spiritual practice of Self-care that clears out the old patterns of past beliefs in order to move out of the unconscious guilt and punishing yourself, blaming others, living like a victim or a martyr, feeling guilty and ashamed, and into feeling more connected with Spirit, please check out my Finding Freedom From Fear Spiritual Bootcamp class – it’s designed to be a rocket booster for your spiritual journey.  Starts September 9.

If you feel you’ve been holding yourself back and letting fear decide, this might be your answered prayer!  If it’s right for you, you’ll know.  Trust your intuition!

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