Learning how to practice forgiveness in relationships is one of the best investments of time and energy I can think of. It can improve the quality of every minute of every day.
I’ve personally gone through many excruciating experiences in relationships. They were so difficult precisely because I was so resistant to learning anything. I was so convinced that I was right and they were wrong or that they were right and I was wrong. As long as I held to that false belief then I was unable to be free and experience peace.
What I’ve come to see is that no matter how challenging the situation or relationship is, there’s always SO MUCH for me to learn. If I think I know everything already then I’m denying myself the opportunity to learn. If I do that, then I am dooming myself to a life of bitter stagnation.
True forgiveness requires my willingness to see beyond the conditioned view, the hardened view, the view through the lens of the past. True forgiveness means having no expectations, no attachments, no shoulds.
Peace lies in my willingness.
You’re entitled to miracles. You will find tremendous peace where once there was so much suffering. This practice works of TRUE forgiveness works! Check out my “How to Get Over it Workshop” It’s totally free on the homepage here at JenniferHadley.com. And if this work feels hard to you, consider getting a booster rocket – come on retreat with me at the end of the month and let’s have fun doing the deep work! If you’d like even more support join the folks in my Masterful Living Class – we’re doing it together!
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