Here’s an issue I used to have and it was quite frustrating. Many times I was doing my best to be delicate, to not be too pushy or strong and it came out as though I was being deliberately obtuse.
Even now, I’m often too subtle, thinking that people can fill in all the missing parts and feel what I really mean, but they don’t and they can’t and it gets me into trouble occasionally, although nowhere near as much as it used to.
For a long time now, I’ve been learning tospeak plainly. Sometimes I feel my nature is to be too direct and that it comes out as something sharp.
For my entire life I’ve been learning about balance and speaking from the heart.
I’ve also learned that a lot of what I could say, I don’t need to say, at all, ever.
We can be super successful at communicating when we can share how we feel without complaining, attacking, or judging. It takes a great willingness to have a healing rather than to just blame.
As Thich That Hath says, “blaming never helps.”
We blame when we’d like people to feel guilty.
What we’re doing is taking our own self-blame and guilt and projecting it out onto others. It creates more drama and trauma which is actually for the purpose of bringing our attention to it.
I used to perpetuate a lot of drama.
I realized that I did that because I felt so helpless.
I’m not helpless anymore, so I don’t need to be silent and I don’t need to make a lot of drama.
I can be clear and speak plainly without judgment and help bring things to the Light of Love for healing.
It does take willingness.
I have that willingness now.
I encourage you to make a commitment to speak plainly, without judgment or blame and with a strong intention to bring things to the light of Love for healing.
In this way, we can let the past go and experience a great healing. It’s beautiful. Let us be grateful!
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