Have you ever argued to prove that you’re right about something? Of course you have. We all have.

Have you ever argued so intensely to prove you’re right about something that you damaged the relationship of the person you were arguing with?

Many of us have.

Some people do it consistently.

I used to be one of those people.

I’ve come to realize that people who are that committed to arguing about how right they are, to the point of being unloving, are deeply insecure. In their perspective, they can’t afford to lose an argument. It will crush them because they already feel so unlovable.

That’s what I finally figured out about my own thinking.

If we already feel unlovable, it doesn’t matter if we alienate more people and leave them thinking you’re intolerable and unlovable – we know they’ll get there eventually and find us lacking. Better to know sooner than later. Right?

But at some point, it just all becomes too much. The burden of not living our purpose becomes unbearable.

What would help is if we could realize, right from the beginning of our lives, is that most people feel unworthy of Love. It’s not unique to us.

“My grievances hide the light of the world in me.” A Course in Miracles, Lesson 69

Folks believe that they have to work and argue and labor for everything, and so they do. I certainly did. For decades.

If we knew that we all started from that same place, and if we could agree to help everyone believe in themselves, and love themselves we’d be learning that too and then everyone would get healed pretty quickly.

In fact, we can start doing that right now. We don’t need to wait for anything.

It would help us remember that we truly are the Light of the world.

Even if we don’t believe it, we are the Light of the world.

Instead a lot of us pretend we’re okay when we’re not and we struggle to get through with our game face on.

A Course in Miracles teaches us that we need DO nothing. It seems hard to believe, but that doesn’t mean it’s not true.

Ask and it is given because it’s already been given to us.

The kingdom is pre-installed.

We’re pre-approved.

When we seek the kingdom, which is within, then all the healing we desire is added unto us.

When we seek the kingdom, or kingdom substitutes, out in the world, then all the healing we desire is hidden from us and unattainable.

If we seek the kingdom outside of ourselves, it’ll seem like it can’t be found, or that we’re unworthy, but that’s just our projection, our belief. We’re responsible for what we see.

What I’ve come to SEE is that there’s a clear path to healing, to awakening, which is the same as healing, for all of us. We all have a clear path and our willingness to get out of the way and depend upon the Higher Holy Spirit Self, then we can have speed healing.

The clear path is one of non-judgment, taking responsibility, extending love and compassion even to those we don’t like, and, of course, forgiveness. Oh, and lots of practice.

When we get on the speed healing path it’s easier because it’s more fun and the company is good. ACIM offers that path to us. And it’s so much easier when we go together. Whether we go it alone or later, let’s go NOW.

I love doing this work together, not just because it’s way easier, but because it’s way more fun. If you think you might be deceiving yourself, or managing and coping with fear and feeling unlovable, you might like my Finding Freedom From Fear, spiritual bootcamp class with ACIM principles. We start this week. The time is so ripe for us – please consider joining us.

For many people who take my program, it’s a game-changer. They don’t look back and life just keeps improving. The mind clears. Love prevails in their life and they find the Freedom they’ve been looking for.

If this is right for you right now, you’ll know it.

Freedom IS our natural state. We don’t have to work to earn it. Instead, we have to be willing, only willing to let go of the blocks to Love. And that’s something we can do together