Over the more than two decades I’ve been a spiritual counselor, many people have come to me for counseling because they were really upset about the behavior of someone they really care about.  

We’ve all experienced this feeling of wanting to dump the relationship or tell the person off.  It can be intense, and deeply frustrating.

Let’s not throw the baby out with the bathwater. 

Sometimes we write someone off because we don’t like something they did or said, but, let’s be honest, who likes everything about everyone?  No one.  

We can love people while at the same time not liking things about their personality.

While we’re being honest, I don’t like everything about my own personality.  

In fact, I used to really dislike things about my personality, but those things have faded so they’re not around to bother me anymore.  

Liking everything is not to be reasonably expected. 

We can accept what we don’t like, and choose not to dwell on our dislike.  When we focus on our dislike, our complaint, then it expands in our awareness and becomes like a virus in the mind.

We can love people that we don’t like.  

We can love the being and dislike the personality.  

That’s acceptance.  As long as we don’t focus on our dislike.  

I think of this as the Jesus way – beyond mere tolerance.  

Tolerance is nice, it’s helpful, but Love is the healer.  

When we can have actual Love for everyone then we are healed and they have called forth that Love in our heart to be expressed in the world.

Right at the beginning, A Course in Miracles tells us to “seek not to change the world, but choose to change your mind about the world.”  

What people don’t understand until they actually live this teaching is that when you change your mind about people, people change.

When we change our minds about our bodies, our bodies change.  When we change our mind about our finances our finances change.  

The world is a projection of the mind.  Let’s change our mind so we can have a different experience.

It works.  Almost every day someone in our community shares with me their miracle shift in their thinking and how it demonstrates miraculously in their life, their body and their relationships.

We can live a miraculous life!

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