How amazing is this: I’ve realized, through my life experience, that as I release the unconscious guilt, I don’t project onto other people and feel bothered by them. What a HUGE relief!!!
I experience this mental and emotional Freedom more and more.
For instance, I’ve just had a couple of friends visiting for the past week. And it’s so wonderful to be able to have a whole week with guests, dear friends, folks I love and not get triggered by anything.
What I can see so clearly is this:
When I’m more loving, I’m more secure, less insecure, less threatened, more centered, less vulnerable, more harmonious.
A Course in Miracles teaches us that those who areloving are invulnerable.
When I’m more secure and more harmonious then I’m not upset by things all day long.
Here’s what it took me a long time to understand: I’m never upset for the reason I think. That’s one of the early workbook lessons of ACIM.
I used to think I was upset by the things people did or didn’t do, or by mistakes, or my shortcomings, etc. Now, I can clearly see that I’m only ever upset by thinking unloving thoughts.
It’s my nature to be loving and when I’m not I’m being inauthentic and that’s the reason I feel insecure, threatened, off-balance, vulnerable and upset.
I’m here ONLY to be truly helpful, to be the Light of the world and when I’m upset, annoyed, threatened, frustrated, hurt, etc. I’m not being the Light of the world and I’m off my true Life Path. That’s why I’m upset – that’s the real reason – when I’m not fulfilling my life purpose because I’m being unloving, it upsets me.
I can be loving or unloving.
I can be harmonious or upset.
When I’m unloving I’ll be upset, and then I stir the unconscious guilt we learn about in ACIM. When the guilt comes up into our conscious awareness for healing we can seize the opportunity for healing or manage and cope with the guilt.
I learned to choose healing because I got so much benefit and now I’m really reaping the rewards of being able to enjoy my relationships to the fullest.
Holy relationships are worth everything we go through to get them.
When I’m able to enjoy my time with loved ones, with no worries of being triggered, I feel free. I’m not playing small anymore. What could be smaller than judging the ones we love the most?
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