Right now, when it’s SO very tempting to judge others, and ourselves, pay attention to the distress you feel, and know that it’s a cry for choosing to liberate yourself.
A guiltless mind CANNOT suffer. Get it?
It’s very painful when, in our relationships, we lay guilt on people in order to motivate them. It’s so manipulative and it really sucks the Love right out of our relationships.
As a teacher and a spiritual counselor, I’ve talked with so many people who feel so pained by their loved ones trying to manipulate them by saying things that are designed to make them feel badly about their choices. I’ve talked with an equal number of people who don’t even realize that their manipulations using guilt are what’s poisoning their relationships.
This manipulation by guilt-tripping is so common, people don’t even realize that they do it. It’s so completely accepted in our world, that it seems normal. It seems like it’s a “natural” part of our relationships.
Alienating people with guilt leaves us in a lonely, cold place. We can change that. There IS a better way.
One of the most extraordinary and wonderful benefits people have from actually doing the work that I recommend in my classes is that they have A LOT more Love in their lives. It takes real courage to look within and to make changes, to forgive, to be more loving. It means being willing to travel into unknown territory and it often means being willing to be vulnerable.
Life without regret is so much more enjoyable. I know that for a fact.
I used to lay guilt trips on anyone and everyone. Manipulation was my constant activity. I thought I was clever for being able to be so manipulative. I’ve learned a lot and I’m not going back.
I encourage you to learn about the subtleties of “guilting” other people and to actively eliminate them from your way of relating to others. You’ll feel SO much better about yourself ALL of the time. It’s worth it!
If you’re ready to dump the old habits that drain you mentally, emotionally and physically, and replace them with habits that support you and increase your capacity for being loving and feeling connected to Spirit, come join me! We’re gaining REAL momentum this year!
Change Your Mind About Your Self – new program! With Gary Renard, Alan Cohen, James Twyman, Lisa Natoli, Mark Anthony Lord, Jon Mundy, Terri Wade, Rev Myron Jones and myself. Click here to learn more – Early Bird until April 15 – don’t miss out!
Let’s get away together and have some fun! Super Early-bird on now! Power of Love In-Person Retreat Memorial Day Weekend in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina! May 23 to May 26 – Come away with us! Let’s have a wonderful time together up in the mountains, doing our spiritual work and playing, having fun, eating delicious food, getting spa treatments and relaxing. Things are so intense right now – let’s get a way for along weekend and open ourselves to new insight and inspiration. We’ll anchor the Highest Vision for our life and let go of limiting habits and beliefs. Let’s play! Click here for more info!
Join me NEXT Saturday, APRIL 12 for a WORKSHOP Activating Faith & Trust for A Happier Life Part 2. By popular request, my April Deep Dive Workshop topic is Activating Faith & Trust for A Happier Life Part 2. Many spiritual students find it very difficult to have faith and place their trust in Spirit, in intuition, and inspiration. Without trust and faith, it’s not possible to awaken and enjoy the daily benefits that being connected with Spirit brings. Trust and faith are possible and there are practical methods to access them. Join me on Saturday, April 12 for a deep dive into the HOW of activating faith and trust. Click now to register.
Thanks Jennifer 💫🙏🏻💞