The center point. The pivot. The one who holds the vision.

We don’t have to be perfect. We don’t have to fix anyone. We don’t have to have it all figured out.

We just have to make the commitment.

I am one with God. One with God is a majority.

God cannot fail. Therefore I cannot fail.

I am going to stand here and serve the light with my life, with my being. I am going to make that the most important thing.

How about you?

When one person in a family commits to that – when one person decides to be the linchpin and do the deep inner work, releasing attachments, releasing perceptions and projections, releasing the opinions and the judgments and the attack thoughts – the guilt has to fall away.

It has to.

The shame falls away. The blame falls away. The regret falls away. All of it.

The mechanism is self-forgiveness.

I have witnessed this in my own family. I have witnessed it with people in my programs. One person doing the deep work, and other members of the family experience profound healing.

• Physical healing.

• Emotional healing.

• Mental healing.

Healing where the doctors don’t know what to do, and the healing occurs because of the one person deciding to take true responsibility and work with their mind.

This is the essence of A Course in Miracles. This is the essence of Ho’oponopono, the Hawaiian forgiveness technique.

We don’t have to be crucified. We don’t have to sacrifice anything.

I don’t feel I have sacrificed one thing. Everything I have given up was something I’d already finished with. The anger. The hurt. The fear, the worry, the doubt. The pain and the blame and the shame and the guilt and the regrets.

I gave it all up. I’m not going back to any of it.

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