Sometimes the choices are very obvious and still we don’t wish to see it.

The more I walk this path of truly living A Course in Miracles, the more I can see the clear choice in my mind.  Sometimes the choice is to be upset or to be at Peace.  It can be that simple.  I can choose to be hurt, offended, outraged, saddened, frightened or calm, harmonious, happy.

It’s not about denying my feelings.  I’m not an advocate of that.

It’s about being able to recognize that I am the one who chooses what thoughts I’ll think.  

I notice that Peace isn’t even a choice, not really.  Because Peace is our natural state.  We’re naturally peaceful.  The choice is to disturb the Peace by believing something that’s false.

Do we choose to believe the lie we tell ourselves and then blame others for our pain?

Isn’t a perfectly wonderful divine design that when we choose to believe something that’s not actually true it upsets us?  I think that’s brilliant!  It’s so helpful to me to remind me to go back to my natural state.

The more we clear our mind of the clutter and trash of false beliefs and negative habits, the easier it gets.  

What if we just stop choosing upset and stick to Peace?  Seems so much easier doesn’t it?

It’s so much easier to just stop poking myself with false beliefs.  Then Peace is naturally revealed.  That’s so much easier than managing and coping with the upsets – it’s less expensive and less time consuming too.

Seems like a good idea because it is.  And it’s actually possible.  In fact, it’s easier than we think. 

That’s what my programs are all about.  Eliminating the upsets back to the root causes of why we get upset.  It’s much simpler, more effective and it really works.  I’m so grateful to find something that works and not spend 90% of my life being upset anymore.  What a relief!

Letting go of blame is a sweet gift we give to ourselves.

The one thing is, we really do have to be willing to do the work.

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