One of the MOST distressing thoughts we have in our human experience is the thought of being separated from the people we Love – and we often do it to ourselves.
Because people don’t do what we wish and think they should do, we think that someone doesn’t Love us and therefore we need to walk away from them, cut them out of our life, and end the relationships. Ugh. This kind of thinking causes much distress. And it’s so common.
It’s all part of the ego theme and pattern of separation from Love showing up in our mind and then in our relationships. If we believe it’s real, we start to see separation and lack all over the place.
Many people ask me about how to know when it’s time to end a relationship. This is something that comes up a lot around this time of year.
I have learned this:
ALL of our relationships are eternal because we are eternal beings.
And, because we’re one with everyone, there’s no way to really end them.
That would only be something that we could experience in our identification with a false, separate self.
Our relationships don’t have an end, and in truth, they don’t have a beginning.
We are one, together, eternally.
Given these basic facts, trying to end a relationship or even worrying about the end of a relationship isn’t helpful or productive.
Instead, we focus our mental and emotional energy on simply being loving. We give the management of our relationships to the Higher Holy Spirit Self and look for the loving choices. This is what works and heals.
There are times when our relationships seem to ebb.
The tide seems to go out.
Like they say, “people are in our life for a season or a reason.”
Instead of grasping, we can allow the ebb and flow of the appearance and hold in our heart that the ideal is unfolding and making itself known. We can think we know what the ideal is, but if we’re not in Joy, then we don’t know, and we’re imagining something less than perfect.
It’s not so easy to give the Higher Holy Spirit Self control of our relationships when we cling to believing we know how things should be.
They may shift and change in ways that the ego does not like at all. And in this we can have a HUGE healing. All healing is welcome.
Everything works for us when we’re willing. Let’s just be willing.
I am so grateful I can choose healing.
I am so grateful I can give the heavy lifting of figuring out HOW to make it happen to the Higher Holy Spirit Self.
I’m so grateful I can allow the healing and set myself free!
This SUNDAY, I’m going to offer my Family Forgiveness free class again. When we hold onto resentments, we block our ability to access trust and faith, and all the benefits that come from trust and faith – and the greatest of these is Love. The only way to have more Love in our lives is to be more loving. Let’s just be willing.
As we’re coming to the holidays, all of our old unforgiveness, resentments and regrets, come up for healing – particularly related to our family relationships. SO much healing is available to us when we do the forgiveness work.
As long as we hold onto resentments, we’ll feel unworthy of Love because we’re withholding Love.
Every year in my Masterful Living Program, (registration is open now, with bonuses happening every week of this year) I see people heal their finances, their bodies, their careers and so much more BECAUSE they do the deep forgiveness work and clear out the stored resentments and regrets.
This work takes courage – it takes willingness – and it’s SO MUCH EASIER to do it with a group of people who are remembering to laugh.
Liberating from the resentments and regrets of the past is the foundation of what I share in my year-long Masterful Living Program, it’s the baseline upon which we build, which is why people have such extraordinary results.
Real people.
Real miracles.
Real relief from the pain of playing small.
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Follow your intuition – you’ll know if this is right for you.
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MY LATEST ACIM PODCAST EPISODE: We’re still challenged to get it uploaded. I hope that will happen today. My topic is Success is Guaranteed. Looking at one of the most basic teachings of A Course in Miracles to help us rise above the battlefield of fear and hopelessness.
