I used to be an over-giver and I would give to depletion.  I saw it all around me in spiritual community and the model of the over-giver was that “this is what being super spiritual looks like.”

It took me some time, but I realized that this over-giving isn’t healthy and it’s actually affirming the ego thought system of our unworthiness.  

No one over-gives who feels good about themselves.

We over-give because we’re trying to get something in return.  We’re looking to get some sense of feeling full instead of living with the deep fulfillment of living a balanced life.

In my classes I talk about giving and receiving because that’s such a fundamental aspect of life.  Yet, how many of us were consciously taught about giving and receiving?  It doesn’t seem like there are very many who really are conscious about giving and receiving.

For spiritual students, they’ve heard that giving is better than receiving, but I am grateful to report that can’t possibly be true.  The only place there is to receive from is Spirit.  So, in some ways, it’s more vital to be able to receive well from Spirit.  Without that we won’t have ANYTHING to give that’s worth having.

When we’re over-giving – like I used to do – it’s a clear indication that we don’t feel worthy and that means there’s a lot of self-attack.

Let’s learn to receive from Spirit.  Our worthiness increases our receptivity.

I had a number of years where I really focused on shifting my ability to receive from Spirit in terms of direct insight, but also I learned to receive from Spirit from what people were sharing with me.  All people are part of God.

Let’s live without limits.

Limits are artificial, and imposed by the ego thought system of separation.  We don’t need them, and we can live without them.  Let’s do it.  Are you with me?

I invite you to recognize a way that you over-give that you might be willing to let go of so that Spirit can flow in more fully!  Thank you!

I’ve been preparing for my Worthiness Workshops this weekend and it’s been so clear to me that this issue of Self-worth and worthiness is the major issue we have.

If you suspect that worthiness is your issue, then you might consider coming to my Worthiness Workshop on Saturday.  

This workshop is for people who are interested in making a change.  Let’s do this healing together and not put it off any longer!  Click here to learn more now.

NEW!  Deep Dive Monthly Workshop Series!  Clear the mental and emotional clutter that blocks the miracles.  Each month I’m offering a new workshop topic.  OCTOBER TOPIC is Worthiness.  Have you been a spiritual student who reads a lot of books, listens to a lot of podcasts (including mine) and is taking in a lot of information, but not experiencing the results you’d like?  Together we’ll do the work you’ve been resisting!