One of the patterns that many people have is a lot like a see-saw or a pendulum. For instance, let’s say you have an experience with a loved one where they disappoint you. The first thought you might have is: “they’re bad, wrong, out of integrity, unloving, inexcusable” or some such thought. Then, the next thought we have is the boomerang coming back and we think “I must be bad, wrong, unworthy, unlovable, inappropriate.”
When there’s an attack thought then there’s a lack thought and they bounce back and forth until we have a change of mind. When we change our mind, we interrupt the pattern and we open ourselves to the flow of Love and Prosperity.
The belief in lack actually proceeds the attack thought, but sometimes we notice the attack thought first and then the lack thought afterwards. We each have our own unique way of experiencing to this particularly pervasive pattern of dysfunction and suffering.
It doesn’t matter which thought, lack or attack, comes first.
If we believe in lack, then we’ll feel attacked.
We’ll feel unworthy.
If we feel attacked then we’re justified in attacking back.
If we attack others then we feel guilty and ashamed. We feel a lack of Love.
And so it goes: the hamster wheel of misery.
What matters is HOW TO GET OFF the wheel.
We have the power to get off that wheel of misery.
Willingness to listen to the Divine Guidance is the key to getting off. It makes our healing SO MUCH faster. It’s unbelievable and miraculous how much healing we can have when we’re willing!
Interrupting the patterns again and again, rather than just going along with them, is how we train ourselves to have a new experience rather than repeat the same thing again and again.
You can say to yourself:
I’m not interested in that old pattern anymore!
That’s not my way anymore. I’m done with that old way of lack and attack!
I’m interested in Love, Prosperity, Wholeness, Freedom and living abundantly!
We replace the old thought with the new thought and we’re on our way to a new experience of Love and Prosperity!
Come retreat with me! Check out my Stop Playing Small Retreat this May in North Carolina! ALSO I’m offering my Spiritual Counseling Intensive Training again – check it out, also in May in North Carolina!
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