As we’re finishing up the year 2022 in our Masterful Living Program, I’m thinking a great deal about the ways that our unconscious guilt shows up in our experience and how we can heal it, repeal it and dissolve it.
One of the things that’s a common experience for folks is that their grief is actually the pain of guilt.
Having been a spiritual counselor for more than 20 years, I can share with you that I’ve encountered many, MANY people who’s grief is an expression of the guilt they feel.
This kind of guilt after a loved one passes can make for a searing experience of guilt and shame – it can be so intense it can last the rest of their lives – but it doesn’t have to. There’s a way out from under that and it’s not so hard.
That’s the thing about the truth – it really does set us free.
For those of us who have eyes to see and ears to hear, I feel we have a spiritual responsibility to call out the false when we see it and recognize it. We have a spiritual responsibility to heal, knowing that this is the gift we share with all.
Many times when we’re torn apart by the passing of someone in our lives it’s because we feel unresolved – but the Spirit isn’t unresolved, the ego identified personality is. Whether it looks as though it’s guilt, regret or resentment – it can all be resolved now – even after someone passed. If you know how.
Willingness is all that’s required.
In class last night we were talking about being willing to stop, look and listen to our own inner experience. It is SO valuable to determine are we being pushed by the pain of the guilt and shame, the upset – OR – are we being pulled by a vision of our healed self?
What’s motivating our decisions? Our upsets? Our choices?
Healing IS happening even when we think it’s not.
Instead of pain being our motivator, we can be inspired by the vision of the life we’ll lead without the pain and false beliefs. We can be inspired by the vision of ourselves only thinking the thoughts we think with god instead of wrestling with the ego one more day.
We can be pushed by pain or pulled by Joy and Freedom.
This is a real and powerful choice that we make every day until we are living in a new paradigm and the habitual negativity and self-sabotage fall away.
This is our life now.
This is what we’re looking at and dealing with.
It doesn’t have to be settling, managing, coping and enduring.
But we do have to be willing to go the other way.
If you or someone you know might like some loving support for grief and stress right now, consider joining me! This will be a different kind of class with tools for moving through the season. Grieving Through the Holidays is a 4 part class that starts TOMORROW Thursday, December 15. It’s 4 classes in 4 days so we can make a real and lasting shift.
Let’s move to higher ground together.
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We’re starting on January 2nd. If you’re willing, I’m willing. If this is right for you, you WILL know it. In my year-long Masterful Living Course a number of people have healed their depression, gone off anti-depressants, let go of old hurts and sadness that has troubled them for many years. They have accomplished what they never believed they could do, because they gave themselves a chance, and they didn’t give up. You can do it too.
Grieving Through the Holidays 4 part class – This class is open to everyone and it’s a BONUS for everyone in Masterful Living this year or next. Let’s join together and make it a time of healing.
Healing the mental patterns of pain, including separation, lack and limitation are a major part of what my year-long Masterful Living Program is all about. Reducing the sense of separation from Spirit means reducing fear, pain and suffering of so many types: physical, emotional and mental. Fear affects our body, emotions and our mental stability – we all know that. If you’d like to live with a sense of trust and faith, Masterful Living might be for you!
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MY LATEST ACIM PODCAST EPISODE: My topic is Grief and Death. Grief can grab us and pull us under. It’s no joke. It feels like a living hell. And yet, we can use it to have deep and abiding healing.
