The truth has been hiding in your awareness all along. If we don’t wish to know it, we don’t know it. But it’s still there, waiting for us to be willing to see.
Here’s what I realized: We give ourselves permission to believe things that aren’t true about our families, and that’s what upsets us. It’s not what they do or don’t do that bothers us, but our willingness to believe lies about them and ourselves. It’s our willingness to invest in false beliefs that’s so upsetting.
A Course in Miracles teaches that “No learning is acquired by anyone unless he wants to learn it and believes in some way that he needs it.” The same is true for family healing. We have to desire it and believe we deserve it.
Many spiritual students don’t feel worthy of awakening or of having family harmony. But all you need is willingness to give up that thought in order to be free of it. Awakening doesn’t take time, it does take willingness. Healing doesn’t take time, it takes willingness.
Those family myths we’ve created, such as: “They’ll never understand me.” “I’m always the problem.” “We’re just too different.” They become like legends that people base their entire lives on. But they’re not true.
I used to be one of those people surrounded by spiritual know-it-alls who could quote every teaching but weren’t happy and weren’t really living it. They were studying but not applying. I’ve seen this in every tradition—Vedic, Buddhist, Christian.
But studying isn’t satisfying when you realize the truth is already written in your heart. The kingdom is within. The Higher Holy Spirit Self is the perfect teacher, always available, always patient.
The way we’re designed as spiritual beings, we’re part of God with access to God’s infinite intelligence.
If we’re interested in absolute truth rather than the little lies we’ve convinced ourselves are true, it’s there for the asking.
My experience now? Even when family members are upset with me, I don’t feel guilty. Why? Because I’ve forgiven myself everything I can find to forgive. I take responsibility for my interpretations and feelings. That’s liberation. And I’m growing stronger and clearer all the time.
Join us in my Masterful Living Program next year, where we move beyond studying into living these truths. Or start with a FREE Forgiveness Workshop to begin releasing those family myths today.
The truth about your family is more beautiful than the lies.
All we really need do is be truly willing to remember the truth.
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