As we’re approaching the Christmas holiday and the intense family time that some people have at this time, I am remembering how I used to go into the Christmas holiday with expectations of disappointment. i would go into my family gatherings with the ghosts of Christmas Past all around me. In all those moments of the past I went in expecting that it wouldn’t go well, I’d be disappointed AGAIN and I’d get my feelings hurt AGAIN, no one would understand me AGAIN.
I finally realized that I was doing it to myself.
Of course, there really is only One, there is no other.
AND when I was willing to have a new experience by BEING in a new frame of mind – I had a new experience.
Miracles happen!
Be willing to choose again.
This year, let your own SELF be the answered prayer! Be willing to BE different so that you can have a different experience and watch how good it can get!
Love is the only healer there is and YOU are love and so is EVERYONE else and you’re One with them.


