I’ve experienced some extraordinary relationship healing in my life and I’m so very grateful.

For me, there’s been nothing more upsetting to me than the difficulties in my relationships.  They have challenged me to the core of my being.  I’m so glad that I learned that this is precisely what relationships are for.  

I’ve learned not to walk away from a difficult relationship.

I’ve learned to never give up on myself or anyone else.

Instead, I’ve come to absolutely know that the thing to do is to give it UP to the Higher Holy Spirit Self for miraculous healing.  This method works, but that doesn’t make it easy.

Relationship attachments can be like an alien parasite.  It makes me think of the terrifying movie, Aliens with Sigourney Weaver (LOVE her!).  Remember when the member of the crew was on the operating table and the alien exploded out of his belly?  

I went through a period where I was undoing the ego at such a rapid rate that I felt that I was pregnant with an alien baby terrorist that was trying to eat me alive from the inside.  

It’s that feeling when the third chakra is going through such an intense cleansing.  The third chakra, at the solar plexis, is all about our self-perception.  When we’re perceiving ourselves as the ego, the small, selfish self, then it’s a constant battle with an inner terrorist.  We’ll project it outward into ALL of our relationships and never feel self.

When we’re willing to shift identification to the Higher Holy Spirit Self, then we can begin to see clearly what every relationship is for.  Then, we can have holy relationships.  It’s intensely challenging, but THANK GOD we don’t have to figure out HOW to make it all happen.  We only have to allow.  

This is the time where we’re all learning about Self-Love – Self with a capital S.  This is the curriculum, and we can delay, and we can avoid, but we’ll still have to do the curriculum eventually.  Let’s get to it!  Heaven is at hand!

The best way to get to it is really focus on loving yourself IN all of your relationships.  

What does loving ourselves mean?  

We can start with simply being kind.

We can speak to ourselves as we would someone we loved – with kindness and respect.

We can hand over the judgments to Spirit.

It takes a great willingness to be mindful.  We must be attentive to our thoughts and that can feel exhausting for a time.  As we clear more and more false beliefs, we find it easier and easier to be mindful, kind and compassionate.  And life gets so much better.

Don’t let inertia get you.  Be willing to exercise your mind and take out the trash of old false beliefs.

Expect miracles, because we’re entitled to them.  

It’s always a good day when we put Spirit in charge!

SUNDAY:  FREE forgiveness workshop! Forgiveness is so healing it’s hard to believe how beneficial it is until you’re willing to really dive in.  I’ve worked with so many people that have had healing at all levels simply because of the forgiveness they did.  It works whether we believe it will or not.  It’s miraculous.  Forgive for our Freedom.

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