Do you have a repetitive cycle of being a victim in some way? A lot of people do.
Do you ever have fantasies of being a victim? A lot of people do.
Have you ever let people take advantage of you, just so you could make them feel guilty and bad about it afterwards?
These are some of the crazy patterns we get to deal with in our earth experience! No wonder it can feel so intense!
It takes courage to dive into this healing work, but it’s SO MUCH easier than limping along and trying to manage the problem.
All those victim stories and victim mind trips take up a huge amount of energy. It’s a bit like the criminal mastermind who works so hard to find a way to steal, cheat and lie to get money when they could apply that same genius capacity to creating something wonderful and achieving abundance that way.
These are the crazy negative patterns that suck the life out of our life. We can change them pretty quickly if we’re truly willing.
A single belief is the foundation for a myriad of negative thoughts. It’s as though the belief is a host for a bunch of spiders building negative web patterns that are very sticky in our mind. Let’s give the Higher Holy Spirit Self the heavy lifting.
What’s SO valuable is to recognize them and interrupt them. As much as possible. Interrupting these patterns is a BIG part of healing them.
When we interrupt the pattern, rather than investing in it as usual, we begin to see that we are not the pattern.
That pattern is what I call “getting off the pain train.”
The victim pattern isn’t part of us, no pattern is. The pattern has no power or volition until we invest our belief in it. It’s our belief that makes it seem so real and appears to give life to it.
There aren’t any REAL benefits to being a victim, but it can seem like there are.
That might seem crazy, but next time you feel the victim story running in your mind, the next time you start fantasizing about being a victim in some way, shape or form, ask yourself what the value of that is to you.
Ask yourself what’s the perceived benefit? Is the benefit that being a victim offers really what motivates you?
Interrupting the pattern makes such a difference in our lives!
You can do it when you give the heavy lifting to the Higher Holy Spirit Self! You make the decision to interrupt the pattern of victimhood and then when the opportunities come, be willing to choose what’s unfamiliar. No one else can do it for you, but all of life does it WITH you when you say YES!
Why not decide now?
Our decision to be our true self, rather than acting like a victim, makes a real difference. Hold to the decision, partner UP, and be willing to practice.
You’ll be amazed at how quickly you can release the painful victim patterns of a life time!
I’m offering my End My Self-Sabotage Challenge later this month. If you’re a secret smoker, if you isolate and self-medicate with food or alcohol. If you have any way that you’re aware that you keep sabotaging yourself, please consider joining in this beautiful program with a group of like-minded souls who are remembering to laugh and truly healing these pain patterns. Together, we can get it done!
NEW PODCAST EPISODE: The latest episode of my podcast’s topic is Activating Unity Awareness. We can fast track ourselves to remembering the truth that is the key to our awakened mind. Everything in ACIM leads us to this awakening and we can step up the process by focusing on certain teachings.
