Take it from an expert in upset – within each upsetting experience there is something for us to learn that helps us grow and become a wiser, more compassionate person.  If we think things shouldn’t have happened then we won’t and don’t forgive.  That’s how we cause our own suffering.

When there’s no forgiveness, when we cling to the meaning we made of something, then we prevent ourselves from harvesting the learning encoded into our experiences.

When we refuse to learn that it’s our opinions that are causing our pain, then we’re doomed to repeat the painful experiences until we become willing to release our judgments.

Once we’re willing to release our attachment to our judgments, then, finally, we can learn from them.

This can take decades or seconds – we’re the ones who decide how long it takes.  Only us, and no one else.

This is the sweet release of A Course in Miracles Workbook Lesson 25, “I don’t know what anything is for.”

Until we release our limited and painful perspective from the vantage point of believing in separation, we cannot see in all directions of time and space, and have the view and vision of the Holy Spirit – because we don’t want to.  We value our painful perspective more.

Until we can see with the vision of the Holy Spirit we don’t know what anything is for.  

Isn’t it just arrogance to think that we do know when so clearly we do not?

And isn’t that arrogance easily forgivable?

As long as we’re deluded into thinking we know what things are for, and who’s bad and who’s good, who’s right and who’s wrong, we’re not interested in the truth that sets us free.  When we need to be right about our interpretations, then we are doomed to keep repeating the same errors again and again.

It’s so much easier to say “I don’t know what anything is for.”

It’s for my learning, and that’s what I’m interested in.  The Holy Spirit will guide me and direct and in the meantime, I can simply be grateful for my willingness to be free and to choose Freedom.

I like it to be that simple.  I’m willing to be okay with not knowing what anything is for.  I can actually be GRATEFUL that I don’t know what anything is for.  There’s Freedom in not thinking I know when I really have no clarity and do not know.

There’s Freedom in being honest and transparent, as long as there’s no judgment.

Freedom is a beautiful thing.

Freedom is relief from the burden of having to figure everything out.

Freedom is relief from having to analyze things.

In Freedom, I can be available for a realization of truth,

… and that’s liberating!

Liberation:  bring it!!!

If you’re feeling stuck, trapped, depressed, or just sad, forgiveness is the way to Freedom.  That’s why we offer free forgiveness workshops a couple of times each month.  The next one is September 7.  If you take the steps I suggest, you will experience more Freedom.

IN ONE WEEK – My Finding Freedom From Fear spiritual boot camp isn’t for everyone – it’s for those who are willing to dive in and do the work to free their mind – and have fun doing it! Click here now to learn more.

We are the ones who can set ourselves free.  Freedom is in the mind.  It’s a choice we make.  It’s the gift we share!

If you’d like support in finding freedom in your heart and mind, in letting go of ALL guilt, shame, blame, regret, resentment, jealousy and anything else you’ve been hanging onto, please consider taking my Finding Freedom From Fear spiritual bootcamp and joining with other like-minded souls who are doing the same work. I find that when we do the work together we get there faster and we laugh a lot more. It’s so much easier when we peel the layers of painful patterns together. Easier, faster, more Love, more Light, more fun, that’s the way for me! You’re invited!

Let’s make a quantum leap together.  

If you’d like my help developing a spiritual practice of Self-care that clears out the old patterns of past beliefs in order to move out of the unconscious guilt and punishing yourself, blaming others, living like a victim or a martyr, feeling guilty and ashamed, and into feeling more connected with Spirit, please check out my Finding Freedom From Fear Spiritual Bootcamp class– it’s designed to be a rocket booster for your spiritual journey.Starts September 9. Follow your intuition – only you know if this is right for you right now.

If you feel you’ve been holding yourself back and letting fear decide, this might be your answered prayer! If it’s right for you, you’ll know.  Trust your intuition!

Not sure if one of my programs is right for you? You’re invited to schedule a free Exploratory Call with one of our certified spiritual counselors to get your questions answered and see if this program can bring you the results YOU would like!