It’s interesting to me that I can’t think of a time in my life when I was kind and compassionate to someone and then later resisted it.  My regrets are few, and mostly they’re about having been unkind.  

I no longer feel guilty or ashamed about them because I don’t judge myself anymore for having made those choices.  That’s the way out of the pain of regret – to release the self-judgment for whatever choice it was that we wish he hadn’t made.

In a sense, our life can be full of regrets or full of compassion.

One of the things I saw early on in my personality is that I felt I had to hold everything against everyone and not forgive otherwise I’d just keep making the same mistakes, and so would everyone else.  Like a lot of people, I had the insane belief that not forgiving, hanging onto the judgment and holding it against people was the smarter way to go.

Oh, if only I’d known how wrong I was!

I could have saved myself SO MUCH suffering.

However, if I’d taken the higher road of non-judgment and forgiveness I would have the clarity that I have now and that I can share from.  Now, I truly understand what others go through and how to get out of the quicksand of that kind of judgement and suffering.

There are a few things I still have some retreat about.  Mistakes I made that may have injured other people in some way.  I pray for them.  I remind myself that A Course in Miracles teaches us that everything works together for good and there are no exceptions.  

I wouldn’t say that I feel guilty.  I don’t.  Guilt I give to the Higher Holy Spirit Self.  I’m more interested in harvesting the learning from my experiences than in punishing myself for my painful choices. 

We don’t have to live with regrets.  

Our self-forgiveness sets us free.

We can choose to live without punishing ourselves with recrimination and guilt.  I feel there are few things more important for us to focus on at this point in our lives.  Let’s focus on compassion and Freedom. 

Traveling this path of letting go of the painful past and releasing compulsive fearful thinking is a path of Freedom. Many folks in this Power of Love community are proving it’s possible even when they thought it wasn’t.  Dissolving difficult thought patterns is the kind of work we do in my Masterful Living Program.  

If you feel called to join us, follow your intuition.  You can book an Exploratory Call with one of the spiritual counselors to discuss any questions you have about Masterful Living and that’s a free call! 

What could you do or accomplish in the coming year that would be more valuable than letting go of the root causes of fear, pain and all suffering?  Why wait?  Why delay?  You will choose it eventually.

People who do this work with us in the Masterful Living Program are often amazed at how their bodies heal and their families heal, and for some it improves their finances in the most unexpected and remarkable ways.  It’s deeply healing to us individually and to those around us, because we share the same mind.  

If people didn’t prove it all the time in Masterful Living, we could never believe that the practical application of these principles would heal their marriage, their arthritis, or their body so they’re no longer spending thousands on medications and treatments.  Who would imagine that surgeries would no longer be needed or that their income would double, triple, quadruple without doing anything different to improve their business?  

Once people prove that changing their mind heals their life and body, they get excited for what else might be possible.

So many relationships are healed, families mended and transformed for the participants of Masterful Living.  Come join us this coming year!   

PODCAST:  The latest episode of my podcast’s topic is Making the Shift: Obstacles to Peace – Part 3.  I share why it’s important not to invest in resolutions, but to use another more effective method of shifting your life through Spirit instead of ego.

SATURDAY:  I’m offering one of my most popular workshops:   Unblock the Flow of Your Time, Energy & Money. If you have issues that trigger you emotionally, causing worry, fear or doubt, this workshop is for you.  For those in Masterful Living this year this workshop is just one of many bonuses!