I used to be the queen of reattachment.

Every time an old pain pattern showed up, I’d grab onto it like it was precious cargo instead of yesterday’s trash.

Let me share what helped me: developing the habit of NOT looking back and examining painful experiences deeply. Why? Because I don’t wish to reattach to the meaning I made of them.  Analyzing them is often not helpful at all – forgiveness, that’s what helpful.

A Course in Miracles says, “Forgiveness offers everything I want.’

So true.

If only I had understood that decades ago.

For so long, I’d reenergize the same painful interpretations: “I’m fundamentally bad,” “There’s something permanently wrong with me,” “I’m unworthy.” And every time I’d reenergize those beliefs, the despair would intensify.

But here’s the truth – and this is so important: The Holy Spirit will undo all the consequences of our wrong decisions, if we allow it, if we let Him.

“The first step in the undoing is to recognize that you actively decided wrongly, but can as actively decide otherwise.”  (ACIM T-5.VII.6)

That became my practice – interrupting patterns permanently by refusing to reattach. When an old trigger comes up, I go straight to the Holy Spirit: “Here’s another piece of trash. Here’s another false belief. Here’s another trigger.”

In my Free Forgiveness Workshops, (I’ve got one today, tomorrow, and Sunday) we learn this sacred practice of letting go without looking back. Because the new habit that sets us free is refusing to reattach to old meanings.

We must decide, ourselves, now, that these pain patterns, that these beliefs, are no longer valuable to us. And in my Masterful Living Program, we support each other in making this decision stick, day by day, choice by choice.

Let’s stop dragging yesterday’s trash into tomorrow.

Let’s leave it at the altar and walk forward in freedom.

Together.

THIS WEEKEND: THREE FREE Forgiveness Workshops – Step into your quantum nature and discover what’s possible when you stop being bound by time and space. Join with like-minded souls for my FREE Forgiveness Workshops this weekend – there are 3 workshops – choose one or all.  We’ll practice releasing our attachment to the past and stepping into the eternal now.  You can learn how to work in the quantum field where miracles are natural. Your willingness to release limited thinking is all you need. Register now!

My Best Program EVER – In my Masterful Living Program, we practice seeing through these painful illusions together. We learn to question our interpretations and open to the truth of Love. We clear the blocks to Love so we can feel the Love that really is there.

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