What if I told you that every time you get triggered, there’s an opportunity for healing? Not someday. Not after years of therapy. Right now.
Here’s what I’ve discovered: When we’re repeating painful patterns, we’re also learning through contrast. We get to see exactly what doesn’t work, what isn’t valuable, what we don’t want anymore.
I spent years believing my painful relationships were proof that I was broken. The same arguments. The same disappointments. The same “if only they would change” fantasies. Sound familiar?
But you see, when we’re in the pain pattern, we’re also getting a clear view of the contrast between living in ego and living in Love.
It’s like A Course in Miracles says: “Pain is a sign illusions reign in place of truth.” (ACIM W-190.3)
Every painful repetition is showing us: “This is not valuable.” And that recognition? That’s the beginning of freedom.
The difference now is that when I get triggered, I don’t see it as proof I’m failing. I see it as my next opportunity to heal. To choose again. To Partner UP with Spirit instead of down with ego.
In my Masterful Living Program, we learn to welcome these opportunities instead of resisting them. Because resistance just keeps us stuck in the pattern.
Ready to practice now? Join me in one of my Free Forgiveness Workshops this weekend where we practice seeing triggers as doorways to liberation.
Because that pain you’re experiencing? It’s your call to greatness.
We’re doing it together!
In my Free Forgiveness Workshops, (I’ve got one today, and Sunday) we learn the healing practice of letting go without looking back. Because the new habit that sets us free is refusing to reattach to old meanings.
We must decide, ourselves, now, that these pain patterns, that these beliefs, are no longer valuable to us. And in my Masterful Living Program, we support each other in making this decision stick, day by day, choice by choice and letting the painful patterns go forever. If you have any interest in Masterful Living or any other program I offer, and you have questions, you can book an Exploratory Call with one of the Quantum Counselors who’ve done the programs and can answer your questions. It’s a free call.
We begin Masterful Living January 26, register early, and receive beautiful bonuses. Click here now to Learn more about my Masterful Living Program.
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