Stop Wishing It Were Different

August 16, 2025

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There’s a truth in A Course in Miracles that I return to again and again: God’s will for me is perfect happiness. Not someday when I’ve earned it, not after I’ve fixed myself, but right now—exactly as I am.

Can we accept that regardless of what we’ve done, or what’s been done to us, that, still, God’s will for us is perfect happiness?

How often do we place conditions on our happiness?

We tell ourselves, “I’ll be happy when the money’s right, when the relationship is healed, when my body feels better.” But ACIM repeatedly, like a true friend, gently reminds us that happiness is not dependent on the world—it’s the natural state of a mind aligned with Love.

I used to think my job was to control my circumstances so I could feel safe and joyful. But the more I tried, the more exhausted I became.

Then I learned: my only real job is to clear away the blocks to Love’s presence. The guilt, the victim stories, the judgment—these are the clouds that cover the sun of perfect happiness.

Today, I practice noticing when I’m “wishing it were different.” That thought is my red flag that I’m slipping into victimhood.

In that moment, I pause, breathe, and remember: there’s a perfection here, even if I can’t see it yet.

God’s will for me is joy. And it’s mine to claim—right here, right now.

So, let’s consider, we can research and analyze WHY we resist it, or we can put all of that energy of seeking but not finding into simply being willing to let go of the resistance and choosing happiness – which means, choosing Love.

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Latest  ACIM PODCAST EPISODE: my topic is Stop Wishing It Were Different: Living in God’s Perfect Happiness Now. I’m reflecting on the A Course in Miracles teaching that God’s will for me is perfect happiness (Lesson 101), and how I can live that truth by respecting the law of cause and effect. I’m learning to release the illusion of sin, guilt, and victimhood, and to see suffering and sacrifice not as spiritual requirements, but as old, learned habits I can let go of. Forgiveness and willingness are my way out, helping me remember that I’m never alone, that I live at the very center of God, and that I am the light of the world (Text Ch. 8, Sec. 4). When I accept this truth, I reclaim my joy, my peace, and my true identity.


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A Course in Miracles, ACIM, daily prayer, Healing, Inspiration, Jennifer Hadley, Living A Course in Miracles, love, miracles, Peace, prayer, Spirituality


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