I used to feel ashamed and guilty because of my many daily failures.  I’d feel dejected and hopeless because I was failing at just being kind and loving.  I realized that a better strategy was to celebrate my victories.

I learned that there’s no extra charge in life to celebrate every little victory.  Let’s celebrate when we notice that we’re now able to be patient with the telemarketer. We can celebrate that we’re able to be kind to the person who is belligerent. And let’s celebrate when we realize we were compassionate with the person who seems to have no compassion. We celebrate when we make a higher choice.

It’s so valuable for us to learn to celebrate when we make more loving choices.  Our celebration, is a recognition that we’re succeeding and that’s encouraging.  It starts a new pattern.  It’s deeply healing.

I really like that victory pose with arms up in a V for victory.  No longer am I the victim of the ego.  I AM is victorious now!

I feel so grateful that we can change our minds, heal our hearts, reboot our relationships – forgiveness makes the most extraordinary healing possible and we can celebrate our willingness to let the past go as well as our ability to take no offense in the present moment.

Any day that we can celebrate even a little bit more Love and kindness is a day we’re able to have healing and be a benefit to others and that is a day of victory!

I am always victorious when I can be more loving.

The very fact that I really do have the ability to change my mind, no matter how tough things are, is a great thing to celebrate every single day!

Cheers to us!  Yay, God!

NEXT WEEKEND DEEP DIVE WORKSHOP – Self-Love for Relationship Healing Saturday, February 8 – Zoom workshop:  One of the hardest things we deal with is the pain of a failing relationship. We recognize our part in it and we make the meaning of the failure that we are a failure at life itself. We often conclude that we’re unlovable. ALL of that can be turned around and undone – if we’re willing. That’s why I’m offering this workshop just in time for Valentine’s Day – make it a gift to yourself! Register now.

Where are you valuing that which isn’t actually true, and it’s just your interpretation?  Are you willing to give up your story to experience a greater awareness of God’s glory in your life?  If you’d like support for that I’m offering a forgiveness workshop to for anyone who’s willing to do the work with me.  You can register now, my gift to all, click now to join me:  FREE forgiveness workshop SUNDAY!

Free Forgiveness Workshop with me on Sunday, February 9th – Join me!  Let’s do this deep work and have a healing together.  Let’s lighten our load as head towards Valentine’s Day.  Now’s the time!  Free sounds good, right?  Invite a friend!  Register now and I’ll see you then!  Click here now to register for FREE!